learn, learn, learn!

the beauty of spirituality and philosophy is that anything and everything can be attributed to life's lessons that one has to learn in order to grow and evolve. The more painful the physical manifestation of the event, the higher the lesson that you've learned. This model works great for one or two events where you can try to see the brighter side of things but soon you get tired of convincing yourself that everything is for good! the fact is there are some events in life, which no matter how hard we try turn to them around; they always come around to haunt us and remind us that life at times can be hurtful and there is no point in fighting your feelings or tricking your mind into not feeling the pain: it's alright to fall apart, sometimes.